We wanted to update our blog from 2021 with some new information, given the policies and actions under the current (2025) U.S. Federal Administration. Those policies may be making members of the LGBTQ+ community feel extra vulnerable. Therefore, having allies at school, in the workplace, and in life in general can make a huge difference. Being an ally includes: being accepting, inclusive, flexible, and understanding of differences, as well as not tolerating offensive or inappropriate language, jokes, etc.
The Intersex Inclusive Progress Pride Flag: While retaining the common rainbow design as a base, the “Progress” variation adds a chevron along the hoist that features black, brown, light blue, pink, and white stripes to bring those communities. In 2021, Valentino Vecchietti designed an intersex-inclusive Pride flag, which includes a purple circle over a yellow triangle. Purple and yellow are used as intentional contrasts to blue and pink, which are typically thought of as gendered colors.
How to be an Ally
Allies are people who, while not LGBTQ+ themselves, have done an enormous amount to advance the cause of LGBTQ+ equality over the years. An ally can show support for LGBTQ+ friends, co-workers, classmates, family members, and others in a wide variety of ways.
From MEIC, a helpline service for young people in Wales, 8 Ways to be a Great LGBTQ+ Ally:
- Understand the history of Pride
- Educate yourself on LGBTQ+ language
- Don’t say “that’s gay”
- Remember that people have a right to privacy
- Take a stand with LGBTQ+ people
- Checkout LGBTQ+ films, TV shows, and books
- Buy from small LGBTQ+ businesses
- Acknowledge that you will make mistakes
The Human Rights Campaign also has a lot of resources for allies: The Human Rights Campaign Resources for Allies
Links and Resources
While many Federal Agencies have removed all DEI related information and websites, there are still many resources available for both the LGBTQ+ community and allies: